Cleveland Tips
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Respect a girl's feelings
Never be the first guy in after a girl has ended a LONG or SERIOUS relationship. Re-bound is REAL and PERILOUS. Unless, of course, you're not prone to falling in love, in which case, give her exactly what she's looking for and desperately needs.....the re-bound of all re-bounds!
Juggling Act
Imagine this process as the funnel theory of sales. Lots of potential candidates on the top of the funnel, only a few make it to the bottom, through the gate. Rule number one in the juggling game is honesty and setting expectations. Typically, for at least a brief time period, its usually acceptable to be networked with your relationships and booked on prime nights of the week or weekends. You'll get away with "I'm busy for the next few weeks, but x looks great". Then, a little e-mail correspondense, a few scheduled calls at specific times, and the ground work for the next successful date will be established. The key is to cut your losses efficiently. This game cannot continue forever.
Breakup Rules
There really is only one kind of breakup. You simply never call or talk to the person ever again. The post sexual friendship relationship rarely works out, usually consumes a lot of time to "negotiate" feelings, and leads to anger or bad feelings from at least one of the partners, tarnishing the friendship. Save time and money and cut your losses if things are not working out in the relationship.
